Happy Father’s Day!

Photo of my father, wandering the village of his grandfather

Thinking About Fathers by Katheryn Laible

Happy Father's Day!

Here is a photo of my own father, wandering through the village of his grandfather, telling stories about him, the mother he raised, his own father, and his father…

I am grateful for him, for them, for my sweet husband, and for all who give it their best to be good men and serve as fathers. It means more than I can say….Thank you!

Brief History

While inspired by its advent, Father’s Day wasn’t formalized until several decades after Mother’s Day. Apparently, it met resistance from dads who found the idea unmanly. Like Mother’s Day’s own founder, many moreover objected to the commercialization of the whole thing. Still, the sentiment runs deep and, in 1972, Richard Nixon finally signed a bill making it official. 

One poignant impetus for Father’s Day in the US was a memorial held in the wake of an awful mining disaster in Fairmont, West Virginia. More directly related to the celebration we know, was a campaign initiated by a woman named Sonora Smart Dodd. She was inspired by a sermon on Mother’s Day and the experience of her father, who raised her and her five siblings alone after their Mom passed in childbirth. Working with local religious leaders, in 1909 they dedicated June 19th (her father’s birthday month) to honoring all fathers. 

You can read about that and other fascinating bits in this Britannica entry, as well as in this History.com article, and in the Farmer’s Almanac.

A Few Resources

I love this collection of “The Best Quotes on Fatherhood” from The Art of Manliness…

Did you know there’s a National Fatherhood Initiative that since 1994 has been dedicated to helping communities and human service agencies foster fatherhood?

Another website, The National Center for Fathering, has been run by Drs. Ken and Michelle Watson Canfield since 1990, offering a wide array of resources and reflections designed to provide practical support to men who wish to be better fathers. 

 

Fatherly, produced by global media company BDG, seeks to “empower men to raise great kids and lead more fulfilling adult lives through original reporting, expert parenting advice, and hard-won insights.”

Thank You - For This Guy and Everyone Else Giving it Their Best

Personally, I am really, super grateful for all who step up to serve in a fathering role. This especially includes all those folks who for one reason or another end up wearing both mother and father hats, and those who are determined to be the fathers they wish they had.  

One sweet and broadly helpful example is this guy, Rob Kenney who hosts “Dad, how do I?” on YouTube. Kenny’s dedicated to doing his “best to provide useful, practical content to many basic tasks that everyone should know how to do.” He started out just trying to do it for his own kids, and now we all benefit.

There are so many guys like this, and so many others who give more of themselves than they knew they had to uplift and serve the next generations. Oh, the stories we could tell…Grateful to have witnessed some of them. It means more than we may realize. 

Grateful!

Juneteenth

June 19th marks the sixth nationally-recognized Juneteenth. It commemorates that day in 1865, 2-1/2 years after the Emancipation Proclamation and over a month after the last battle of that hard, bloody war, when the last Black American slaves in Galveston, TX were finally set free. For many, the holiday celebrates our Nation’s ability to confront its immoralities and more fully realize its founding principles. For others, it’s much more personal.

The National Museum of African American History & Culture  offers a rich history of the celebration. Juneteenth has been celebrated in black communities since 1866, starting as church gatherings. Prior, beginning in 1863, there were “Watch Night Services” praying for the day to come. Modern celebrations include street fairs, parades, concerts, and, yes, still lots of prayer. In 2021, Juneteenth was finally recognized as a federal holiday.

Another good way to honor this day is to study history, and to reflect on how, while Juneteenth itself recalls a moment of triumph worthy of celebration, humans remain human. We still struggle to see, learn from and honor each other. The pursuit of “a more perfect union” remains an ongoing project that requires ongoing care.

We think it’s also important to note that, even in the darkest of times, all sorts of folks have given it their best to overcome all sorts of stuff in order to make things better for everyone. This happens more than we might realize, and often in places we might not expect. None of us can heal things alone. We all have a lot to learn. May we gratefully reinforce all who give it their best to advance civil rights and otherwise endeavor to more fully realize the acknowledgment and admonishment entailed by our nation’s Declaration of Independence that, “We hold these truths to be self-evident, that all men are created equal, that they are endowed by their Creator with certain unalienable Rights, that among these are Life, Liberty and the pursuit of Happiness.”

We are also grateful for folks who have long worked to capture and uplift stories focused on the unique history of local Black Americans. In the Town of Huntington, for example, these range from more prominent folks like the first Black American Published Poet, Jupiter Hammon and renowned author and orator Booker T. Washington, to Greenlawn’s famously entrepreneurial “Pickle King,” Samuel Ballton, to artifacts of sometimes unclear origin that share stories of life as a Black American throughout our local history. Here’s a fascinating lecture on slavery in Huntington offered here by Town Historian Robert C. Hughes, and a CBS report on an archaeological dig at the Peter Crippen House.

All testify to the determination of the human spirit to preserve culture and rise above, despite great challenges that continued well after Juneteenth and into today.

Here are a few upcoming events that endeavor to do the same:

Juneteenth Jubilee in Valley Stream

The New York State Office of Parks, Recreation and Historic Preservation will hold its second annual Juneteenth Jubilee. The event will feature cultural entertainment, cultural food, information booths, interactive activities, children’s games, children’s inflatables, and more!

The Long Island Nets will be hosting a FREE special basketball clinic for children ages 7 to 14 on the newly upgraded basketball courts. Registration is still open. There will also be a special welcome address from Assemblywoman Michaelle C. Solages highlighting the importance of the Juneteenth Holiday and what it means to celebrate Black freedom. This year’s program is sponsored by NY Life and Sunrun.

When: Friday, June 19, 2026. 12-4pm,  
Where: Valley Stream State Park
Fee: There is an $8 Vehicle Use Fee. Event activities are FREE
Basketball Camp! Youth ages 7-14 are invited to join the Long Island Nets for a free Basketball Academy Clinic from 1-3pm. Registration is required for the basketball clinic.
 

Long Island Authors at the Walt Whitman Birthplace

Long Island Author Cheryl Williams is again collaborating with the Walt Whitman Birthplace Museum to Celebrate Juneteenth.

The event is free and open to the public. Come be inspired by poetry and spoken word centered on the story of Liss and enjoy beautiful saxophone renditions from Carl Bartlett as they “Celebrate History, Honor Freedom. Embrace Culture.” Enjoy a merch stand, a food truck and delicious complimentary cupcakes. 

When: Friday June 19, 5-7pm
Where: The Walt Whitman Birthplace, 246 Old Walt Whitman Rd, Huntington Station

Juneteenth Jubilee at the Cathedral of the Incarnation

Join the Episcopal Diocese of LI in a celebration of scholarship and justice at this Juneteenth Jubilee. There, the Rt. Rev. Lawrence C. Provenzano will present scholarships to those selected for the Episcopal Diocese of Long Island’s Barbara C. Harris Scholars Program. These $5,000 awards are presented to carefully selected college and vocational/technical students who are the descendants of enslaved people and who have exhibited exceptional academic excellence and dedicated themselves to creating a more just world through to their communities.

The Diocese invites you to join us for this celebration of scholarship and justice:

When: June 20, 2026 from 11am-1pm
Where: Cathedral of the Incarnation, 50 Cathedral Ave, Garden City. 
To Register: While the event is free and open to the public, registration is required 

 

Long Island's Biggest Juneteenth Cultural Celebration and Father's Day Marketplace

In an endeavor to bring together culture, community and small business, the Black Legacy Partners and NAACP Hempstead Branch present “Long Island’s Largest Juneteenth Cultural Festival.” This will include a Father’s Day Weekend Marketplace showcasing “black-owned brands, gifts and experiences for dads.”

When: Saturday, June 20, 12-6pm
Where: Hicksville LIRR Outdoor Grounds, 125 W. John St., Hicksville, NY
For More Info: Email hello@blacklegacypartners.org

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2026 Pride Month: Local Events

“40 Years in Love: Notes from the 2023 Huntington Pride Parade” by Katheryn Laible

Pride Month commemorates the 1969 Stonewall Uprising in Manhattan when, following a raid of a then-illegal gay bar that included invasive personal inspections to validate individuals’ gender identities, folks of all stripes took to the streets to demand their right to exist and be openly themselves.

This was an extraordinary eruption of the human spirit that is seen as a tipping point in the Gay Rights movement. You can read about it here at the Library of Congress, the National Geographic, and the History Channel websites.

Fundamentally, it’s a celebration and affirmation of the broad spectrum of humans who may not fit neatly into cultural conceptions of gender, and a recognition that the biology of gender and sexuality is actually quite complex. It honors the significant contributions to society made by LGBTQ folks, asserts their fundamental right to exist, and welcomes them as our neighbors, family and friends.

The 36th Annual Long Island Pride Parade

Huntington Pride Parade 2023

According to the Long Island Pride website: 

“Last year, more than 150,000 people marched, gathered, and celebrated across Long Island, Queens, and the North Fork under the theme Defiant Joy.  In a time when LGBTQ+ people were being targeted in schools, legislatures, and public spaces, our community chose visibility over fear, connection over isolation, and joy over silence.

That choice mattered.

It sent a message — that we would not retreat, we would not be erased, and we would not be divided.

This year, we move forward with that same spirit and even greater resolve under a new theme:

UNSTOPPABLE PRIDE

Here. Now. Always.” 

 

The 36th Annual Long Island Pride Parade
When: Sunday, June 14 from 12-5 pm
Where: Main Street Parade runs from Clinton Ave. to the festival in Heckscher Park
 

In coordination with LI Pride, which organizes the overarching event, The Heckscher Museum of Art will offer FREE admission from 12:00-5:00, and will be giving out pride coloring books, flags, pins, & stickers. There will be “Drag Runway Performances” in the Museum, featuring Drag Queen Miss J Bella at 2 & 3:30pm. You are warmly invited to come in your most fabulous garb and join the show!

The Heckscher invites folks to march with them in the parade, too. If you’d like to do that, you may sign up here. 

Northport Pride

Neighbors having fun and spreading love.

Over the last few years, the neighborly collaboration that is Northport Pridefest has made a concerted effort to ensure that everyone feels welcome here. On May 29th, following an interfaith prayer service at St. Paul’s Methodist Church centered on reflection, unity, and hope, the Pride Flag was raised above Northport Village Hall and the  Village Police Department.

This marked the beginning of “Pride Fest,” a month-long community celebration. There was a “Pints for Pride” event at Sand City, and a “Smile Stories” event at Twisted Cow Distillery. ART POP did a  paint and sip. Learn more on the Northport Pridefest website and Instagram.

The main event, held by waterfront, is run in cooperation with the Incorporated Village of Northport. 

What: “Pride Fest In the Park”
When: Saturday, June 20 from 12:30-4_30pm
Where: Northport Village Park
For More Information: Visit the Northport Pridefest Website
 

According to their website “Attendees are invited to show up and celebrate their authentic selves. The event will feature a curated program hosted by the fabulous drag queen LaBelle, music by DJ Mike, community members sharing their stories, and a park full of non-profit organizations & businesses. While in town, explore Northport Village’s many specialty shops, galleries, eateries, wine bar, brewery, historical museum and experience all that scenic Northport has to offer.”

More Long Island Events

More events run by the NY LGBT Network include

 
Pride Night at Citi Field
When: Saturday, June 26, 7:10pm
For More Information: Visit the NY LGBT Network Website
 
North Fork Pride Parade and Festival
When: Saturday, June 27, 12-4pm
For More Information: Visit the Northfork Pride Website
 
Thrive Social Series
When: To be Rescheduled
For More Information: Visit the NY LGBT Network Website
 

The mission, as articulated by the NY LGBT Network is to build, “Safe, affirming, and connected communities where we all thrive together.” Let’s do it. 

Tell Us a Tale! Northport Village Storytelling

These Northport Village Storytelling events are super fun and wonderful ways to get to know our neighbors and build community. We were thrilled to get to host one at The Firefly a few years ago and are excited every time one happens!
 
Inspired by The Moth Radio Hour, Elizabeth Alexander has been working with neighbors to craft these live story telling events, creating opportunities for the community to connect and to be inspired. There’s a beautiful story about it written by Joanne Kountourakis here in the Northport Journal. 
 
Moth-style storytelling is a genre of personal narratives about experiences that took place in the storyteller’s life. The stories are crafted, planned, and told (not read) before a live audience. It’s a wonderful art form that allows folks to connect at a very human level.
 
Follow them on Facebook, and check out their website: www.northportvillagestorytelling.com.
Basic Guidelines for Storytelling: 1. Tell story in 5-10 minutes 2. Story to be told, not read 3. Base story on theme: coincidences 4. Craft your story 5. Story must be about a personal experience. 6. No stand-up comedy acts or rants

The Theme for the Next Story Slam is SIGNS

Liz is excited to announce that the next event is on the calendar!

When: Friday, July 24th
Theme: SIGNS
Storytellers Wanted: Email northportvillagestorytelling@gmail.com
 
Additional details will be available soon!

Need Confidence? Some Pointers? Learn the Fine Art of Story Telling!

Many folks have said they would LOVE to share a tale, but are not quite sure how. Liz and Annie are here to help! They’ve been hosting live workshops on the fine art of story telling. The next one’s coming up:

When: Saturday June 13, 11:30AM – 2:30PM

Where: St. Paul’s 270 Main Street, Northport

To Register: Email northportvillagestorytelling@gmail.com

For the $20 entry, you will receive light refreshments and connection to the world through storytelling. Liz and Annie are hoping to grow the local pool of folks willing to step up to the mic at her events. Whether or not you’d like to do that, the ability to impart a fine tale is a valuable skill, and everyone says the workshops are excellent! Join them. 
Jess Sellheimer, Annie Mark, Joanne Kountourakis and Liz Alexander thoroughly enjoying the May 16th workshop. Image provided by Liz Alexander.

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Pal-O-Mine Invites You: “The Mane Event”

Join Pal-O-Mine Equestrian for “The Mane Event” this June, where they are excited to lean into celebrating the Year of the Horse! Ticket holders will get to meet the horses, complete horse themed art projects, and experience education stations and games suited for all ages. Children under 3 get in free. It’s a fun way to spend a Friday afternoon while helping Pal-O-Mine raise funds required to achieve their healing ambitions.

For more than 30 years, Pal-O-Mine Equestrian has been proving the healing power of horses. Their therapeutic equine program, serves children and adults with disabilities, those who have been abused or neglected, the military and the economically compromised. 

Read this article we wrote with Pal-O-Mine some years ago, visit their website to learn even more, then join them for a fabulous afternoon. 
 
What: “The Mane Event” Fundraiser benefiting Pal-O-Mine Equestrian
Where: Pal-O-Mine Equestrian, 829 Old Nichols Rd, Islandia
When: June 19, 2026, 2-6PM
Details: View the flier below, and visit www.pal-o-mine.org
 

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Photo of the exterior of The Firefly Artists

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